Why subscribe?

This space is for fathers raising children with disabilities. For dads going through something big, raw, and life-changing.

I’m Kirby Rabalais. I’m a dad, a husband, and the founder of Got4titude. When our son Harley was diagnosed with a rare genetic condition, my world flipped upside down. I felt overwhelmed, angry, heartbroken, and completely alone.

Eventually, I started sharing what I was going through. That’s when everything started to shift.

Now, I write and speak honestly about what happens after the diagnosis. The grief, the pressure, the sacred moments of joy. The kind of stuff most people don’t talk about.

I also share tools, mindset shifts, and spiritual practices that have helped me get back up and keep going. And I invite other dads to do the same.

Because you don’t have to figure this out alone.

If you’re looking for a place where it’s okay to feel everything and still hold onto hope, you’re in the right spot.

What you'll find here

• Weekly posts about fatherhood, grief, caregiving, and personal growth

• Audio and video versions so you can listen while you drive, walk, or zone out on the porch

• Guest posts and conversations with other dads and change-makers

• Digital Guides with actionable deep dives on critical topics to how to navigate the system without losing yourself.

• A real, judgment-free space where you can just be yourself.

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This isn’t just a newsletter. It’s a place to catch your breath. To tell the truth. To feel seen and supported.

When you subscribe, you’ll get every post straight to your inbox. No spam. No fluff. Just honest conversations and stories that might make you feel a little less alone.

And if something you read speaks to you, pass it on. Leave a comment. Or just know you’re part of something real.

I’m glad you’re here.

Subscribe now and let’s keep walking this road together.